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Williams Johnston, 5, directs his young classmates in an alphabet exercise at Eugene Field Elementary School Wednesday, October, 8. "He's adapted very well," said his teacher Kim Calloway.
Amy and Scott Johnston were living the American dream. They had three healthy, blond-haired, blue-eyed children, a beautiful home in a safe neighborhood, good jobs, extended family nearby and enough money to live comfortably.
But then God upset the applecart in the form of Williams Kofi Nketia Ankomah, a 5-year-old boy from Africa. And on Aug. 13, their lives were changed forever.
Aug. 11
Mrs. Johnston is folding towels just out from the dryer, something she does a lot of with a backyard pool. And the Johnston girls, Holly, 12, and Hannah, 10, are enjoying their final days of leisure before school starts, lounging on the sofa, each busily playing a pink Nintendo DS, as Winston, the Johnston’s 9-year-old Wheaton terrier, watches at their feet. Adam, 7, is playing with the family iguana on the floor, getting an occasional laugh out of the girls.
Mr. Johnston would normally be at work, but not today. He is a 36-hour trip away in Ghana, a country about the size of Oregon, situated in the heart of West Africa. According to UNICEF, it’s a place where the majority of people live in poverty, with close to 60 percent of the children involved in child labor or child slavery and an estimated one million orphans.
Less than a year ago, while attending The Edge Christian Fellowship church, the Johnstons learned about the need for families for international children. Missionaries talked about their experiences and asked the congregation to consider adopting a child.
“I was thinking the whole time that this was what we are supposed to do,” Mrs. Johnston remembers. “I didn’t even say it out loud, because I thought it would pass.”
But it didn’t. The thoughts just became more urgent. And then that evening, her husband told her that he, too, had a strong feeling they should adopt a little boy. It would have been easier to live as they were and stay insulated from the rest of the world, they reasoned. But if they didn’t do something, who would?
“Our plan of being comfortable,” Mrs. Johnston says, “was not God’s plan.”
They had the room. They had the means. And they couldn’t come up with a good enough reason not to.
“It’s overwhelming how many children over there don’t have homes, food or medical attention,” she says. “I know adopting one child is not going to change the world, but it will certainly change his.”
After doing some research, they found out about Eban House and a new pilot program for adopting older children out of Ghana run by Adoption Advocates International. Although they had never considered adopting a child from Africa, the Johnstons discovered the process would take much less time than the years it takes out of other countries. So in December of 2007, the mass of paperwork, interviews and flights to Ghana began.
And now, it is just a few days before dad and Williams will arrive at KCI Airport and be home.
“It’s going to be something new,” Holly says. “I don’t know what’s going to happen. I don’t know how he will react to us and how he will want us to react to him. But overall, I am really excited.”
Aug. 14
It’s been just 24 hours since Williams has arrived in St. Joseph. At first glance, he looks like a doll, with a perfectly round face and large button brown eyes. He seems small for his age, whatever that might be. The Johnstons were originally told he was 6 years old, but it was determined he is only 5. That’s because his Ghanian mother didn’t know for sure what year he was born. His father was killed while serving in a peace-keeping mission with the military when Williams was a baby. His mother was no longer able to care for him and brought him to the orphanage. Now safely at the Johnston home, Mrs. Johnston holds Williams closely to her chest, his arms wrapped tightly around her. Williams’ head snuggles on her shoulder, watching the family activities from his little cocoon. Hannah and Holly circle around them.
“Hi Williams,” they say, playfully, but softly, touching his cheek and ears. Williams smiles shyly, and he seems to like the attention. But when Adam comes bounding down the stairs, Williams wants down, and all the children run off to the living room. In a few minutes, Adam is showing Williams how to use his Nintendo DS game. The boys sit side by side on the couch, peering into the tiny screen. Adam does most of the talking as Williams watches and smiles. But when music begins to play, Williams jumps up and leads the group in a kind of marching dance on the carpet.
Surprisingly, Williams readily calls Mr. and Mrs. Johnston “mommy” and “daddy.” Mr. Johnston says although Williams was anxious for them to be his parents, it’s probably due to a cultural difference in Ghana. Men, for example, are either called “daddy” or “uncle.”
“Younger men are called ‘daddy,’ older men are called ‘uncle,’” Mr. Johnston says. “They don’t have to be biological. So all of kids were calling me ‘daddy.’”
Even before he got to the orphanage, he says Williams was asking, “When’s my daddy going to take me to America?”
Williams cries out “Mama, mama,” when Winston, the dog, suddenly appears close by. Winston is not aggressive or threatening looking. It’s just another cultural difference. Dogs are not pets in Ghana, but vicious animals to be avoided, Mrs. Johnston says.
It’s time for dinner. For Williams, that used to mean almost exclusively chicken and rice with maybe goat on special occasions. Tonight he takes his first bite of spaghetti. And just like his first experiences with a McDonald’s Happy Meal, Apple Jacks cereal and pizza that he’s eaten since being in America, he first looks at it carefully, then eats it all.
Sept. 13
Williams’ kindergarten class at Eugene Field Elementary is a far cry from the one-room school he went to in Ghana with a concrete floor inside the orphanage and a dirt play yard. But his one year of school in the orphanage was more than many children there receive, Mrs. Johnston says. If you can’t afford a uniform, you can’t go to school, so many kids don’t.
Kim Callaway, Williams’ kindergarten teacher at Eugene Field, was surprised when Williams first came to class.
“I didn’t know he knew so much,” she says. “His letters, his sounds. It wasn’t what I was expecting.”
Williams speaks English well enough to be able to correct anyone if they should mistakenly call him William (without an “s”). He also speaks the languages of his birth mother’s tribe, Twi, and his father’s tribe, Ebe. The Johnstons wish there was someone in St. Joseph who could speak those languages.
“He will lose it,” Mrs. Johnston says. ”I have not seen a Rosetta Stone for Twi.”
Today, Williams is wearing a navy blue T-shirt that says “All American O8” and Nike tennis shoes. As he sits at one of the computers playing a reading game wearing headphones, one would never guess his past. And the fact that he is the only black child in class has not been an issue.
“He doesn’t stand out like that,” Mrs. Callaway says. “Kids are so accepting.”
Although the Johnstons have been told it takes about six months for a child to adjust to a new home, Williams already has made great strides. He’s been swimming, boating and rides bikes with the family. He’s traveled to Des Moines, Iowa, for a family reunion. And he’s been a phenomenon on a once-a-week kindergarten soccer team he plays on through Wyatt Park Baptist church, scoring six goals in one game. It’s exciting to think what he will do in the future now that he has opportunities, Mrs. Johnston says. In Ghana, he would never have played high school soccer, for example, because he would never get to go to school.
And although the Johnstons say they aren’t naive enough to think there won’t be difficulties down the road, they know adopting Williams was the right decision.
“It all comes down to what your life is about,” Mrs. Johnston says. “Is it about you? Or is it about something bigger?”
Lifestyles reporter Sylvia Anderson can be reached at sylviaanderson@npgco.com
All I have to say is that it's amazing how many people here don't have homes, food, or medical attention.
Right here in the ol' US of A. No reason to go to a different country to find the needy.
Are we so arrogant to think only the needy are from other countries, or do our needy have themselves to blame and subsequently themselves to lift them back up?
Not for nothing, I think it's great people like the Johnstons help. My grandmother raised foster children for 30 years. There were all from the good ol' US of A.
When asked why she didn't adopt a foreign child and bring them to America she would respond, "we haven't helped our children yet."
Posted by MichaelH on October 12, 2008 at 8:35 a.m. (Suggest removal)While it's worse in India, child labor camps are nearly one in the same with major soccer ball manufacturers in north African countries. Pakistan employs child labor as well.
At the risk of sounding like a jerk, I wonder if he knew any kids who used to make those soccer balls.
In a Real Sports segment, Gumble et al infiltrated many of these child labor camps. Yet Wal-Mart has these very balls, made by children, possibly friends of young Williams, on their shelves. You'll note they are labeled with, "free of child labour." I've seen them and my guess if you pay attention, you'll see them too.
Meanwhile, your government officials (US Dept. of Labor) claim to be, "shocked" "appalled," and "outraged." They also claim they've never found any wrongdoing since they began the "FoulBall" campaign in 1996.
Meanwhile lil' ol' Real Sports managed to not only find these labor camps, they filmed them.
So as not to perpetuate the, "theorist" label, I'll leave it at that.
What's worse, living in a country where you have to make the balls or living in a country where it's okay to buy them?
When asked what they would like to do in life (not just tomorrow or the next day - IN LIFE), the children said they hoped to one day be able to play with the balls they are making.
I guess young Williams is living the dream for some of those children.
Posted by MichaelH on October 12, 2008 at 10:33 a.m. (Suggest removal)I should say along with all of my comments above that while he is here, I will welcome young Williams as my brother.
I wish him the best!
Posted by scrubnurse on October 12, 2008 at 6:03 p.m. (Suggest removal)I have a friend who has adopted two children from Russia. One reason many people go for international adoption is because it is much easier than the hoops you have to jump through to adopt here in America! The adoption laws in this country often make it a very difficult and long term ordeal whereas in other countries it is much easier.
Posted by MichaelH on October 13, 2008 at 12:03 a.m. (Suggest removal)So we can't wait for our own children?
Posted by jen on October 13, 2008 at 12:48 a.m. (Suggest removal)Being an adoptive mother myself, I know the decision to adopt from the US or another country is made by families for different reasons. I think the argument that people should only adopt from here and not internationally so we can "help our own" is ridiculous. Just because there is an ocean between us and those in other countries does that make that child any less worthy of having a family? I think it should be celebrated that families are drawn to adopt one of the 148 million orphans in this world no matter where they adopt their child from.
I thank this family for sharing their story. Williams is a sweet boy. I feel bad that others find it necessary to use the opportunity to question why the Johnsons adopted from where they did. I applaud them for having the courage to research and find a child that needed a home in a place in which there are so many orphans and not for being narrow minded and feeling that we should only help others that look like us or are from the same place.
I wish the Johnsons only the best and hope that their story inspires others to adopt a child that needs a family whether that child be from the US or from another country- because a child is a child.
It is more important to celebrate adoption because one more child has a mother and a father tonight because this family opened their hearts and home.
Posted by MichaelH on October 13, 2008 at 7:18 a.m. (Suggest removal)Narrow minded? Hardly. I'm simply opening up a different point a view for discussion.
I clearly admitted that folks like the Johnsons help make the world go around.
I just wonder why, as American, we have a tendency to look abroad for solutions instead of looking in our own backyard. Young Williams was not short a mother, but a mother who could adequately care for him.
I wish more folks would adopt as opposed to giving birth, if possible. I understand it's a tough road, but I would hope we could help ourselves out first, and then try to help as many others as possible.
Again, at the risk of sounding like a jerk, I simply wish our own children in need were as precious a commodity as apparently foreign children in need are. We have quite the situation at home, so I am curious why we go abroad to find other children who fall into the same category as our own. It's no secret that foreign adoptions have become quite popular, for the very same reasons that were commented on above, most likely.
Consider my comments food for thought as opposed to criticism. At the root of the topic, I'm glad any child was helped at all.
Posted by 4wildones on October 13, 2008 at 9:08 a.m. (Suggest removal)Maybe there needs to be change in American adoption laws. It seems our system does not want to help the children as much as these other countries do. Seems they make it possible whereas in America is is very, very difficult. You wait forever even if you don't just want an infant. Then there are the instances where the birth parents have so much time to change thier minds and can come take the child away. It is crazy. I wish we could help our own children first but our laws are not favorable for that. At least today there is one more child in the world who has a loving family. I am glad this family followed their hearts and opened their family and their doors to this child. Congratulations and Welcome to America Williams.
Posted by hicksamsbury on October 13, 2008 at 9:31 a.m. (Suggest removal)Most families spend a great deal of time trying to decide the best situation for their THEM, whether that be domestic, foster to adopt, or international adoption. There is high demand for domestic infants, making the wait time for a placement years, not months. Foster to adopt is not an easy option either. Again, there is a high demand for young children within the system, and those children are often adopted by their foster parents. Perhaps this is an option for some, but it is an emotionally grueling experience to bring a child into your home, believe with your heart that they will become a part of your family, only to be lied to by social workers that return that child into the same abusive, manipulative home they came from.
My family waited and waited for a match within our state system, only to be offered children with such severe behavior and cognitive delays that we could not accept them. Our goal was to have a child, be parents, not "save" a child. So adopting a child that would never function on the spectrum of normal was not an option for us.
Many of the families that adopt also view the orphan crisis from a religious perspective and feel that they have been called to adopt. They view the world through Christian, Muslim, or Jewish eyes, not eyes that only see national boarders. Some families feel a deep connection for a specific country, perhaps because they have traveled there themselves, perhaps because a loved one lived in the country, perhaps they have roots in that country. Suffice it to say that there are many reasons a family might choose to adopt from a country other than their own.
And I disagree with your premise that we need to help "our own" children before considering any other child. Some within our country have this idea of “me first” and it is clearly not working for the US. We live in a time of globalization. Economies, environments, populations and poverty are interlinked with the other countries that we share this globe with. It is absurd to think that I should only be concerned about helping the endangered animals within the US boarders, or that I should only worry about manufacturing practices within the US boarders. And it is just as absurd to think that I shouldn’t take any ownership in the orphan crisis that is affecting many third world nations.
Posted by hicksamsbury on October 13, 2008 at 9:31 a.m. (Suggest removal)To be continued
This idea of “US first” is especially problematic when you do a little research. The US corporations such as Hershey’s chocolate and Firestone tires have contributed to the poverty that creates many of those orphans. Both of those companies engage in modern day slavery, their workers work in horrible conditions and don’t make fair wages, so they can’t provide for their children. Why? So that Americans can enjoy that candy bar or hot chocolate for less than a dollar, so that Americans can put tires on that big SUV at a reasonable price. So if we contribute to the problem, why in the world shouldn’t we help solve the problem?
I’d also like to speak to the notion that there is just as much poverty in the US as there is abroad. There isn’t. I’ve traveled to the three biggest cities in the US. I’ve been a case worker for an organization that works with impoverished families in a large US city. And I’ve been to a few third world countries. The level of poverty isn’t the same. It’s not even close to being the same. Not at all. You haven’t seen poverty until you’ve seen thousands and thousands of families living in 4x6 tin shacks, hundreds of people lying in the median between roads, some naked, some dead, most starving, everywhere you go. You haven’t seen poverty until you seen dozens and dozens of children lining the streets, begging for food because they have no money, no family, no hope. Even the poorest families that I worked with would be considered well to do in many African countries. It isn’t the same. Not at all.
I applaud any family that chooses to take action against the orphan crisis, regardless of the family or the child’s national origin. It sounds like you are very passionate about the orphan crisis that affects the US. Perhaps you should look into adoption a child through “our” system.
Posted by ReneeS on October 13, 2008 at 1:41 p.m. (Suggest removal)There are people who talk about changing the world, and there are people who are actually doing it. What a blessing to read about the Johnson Family who is actually doing it! Every orphaned child deserves a family, and I applaud them for giving Sweet Williams a home.
Michael H. you speak quite passionately about helping the children here in the US who need to be adopted. I would like to hear about how you are actually helping them.
Posted by ninja_man on October 13, 2008 at 2:41 p.m. (Suggest removal)how dare these people try and help a child that doesn't have "made in america" stamped on his back? (what's that word i'm looking for... ummm... ah yes, SARCASM!)
Posted by MichaelH on October 13, 2008 at 4:40 p.m. (Suggest removal)I would consider myself passionate about most anything American. I would also suggest you re-think the sarcastic question you asked me.
Should you offer an opinion of your own on an unrelated subject, should I assume you've taken action, physically or otherwise, in earning your right to an opinion on the subject? Hardly...
Anyway, my professional skills and education are in law, history and small business management.
I may not have the answer you seek, but sometimes a solution isn't always the solution. Sometimes simply recognizing the problems can yield their own solutions.
Just as described in comments above, there is so much government intervention with every aspect of Americans lives (because we've asked for it, no less), that it becomes extremely difficult to do something as simple as provide a positive life for a child would otherwise not have it.
Like the rest of our government, we need to at least acknowledge not only the obstacles in our way - but to consider the many more obstacles presented us as we demand more and more government. Only then can you really get an idea of what needs to happen to change it and to prevent the same problems from popping up that were the reason for government intervention in the first place.
It's sort of like this election...
The more people keep voting AGAINST a person (rather than FOR someone the agree with), we'll never get anywhere because we are electing people we do not agree with and then cry foul when they do what we knew they were going to do in the first place.
The only way to fight it is to get a voice.
I may not be shouting from a mountain top, but I hope that in these comments and the many conversations I have with folks in real life, that I can help people understand that asking questions isn't a bad thing.
You say, "why not adopt foreign children?"
I say, "why aren't more American children adopted?"
The problem in this case isn't the foreign children being adopted, it's current legislation that all but prevents that process.
Posted by MichaelH on October 13, 2008 at 4:40 p.m. (Suggest removal)Ninja_Man, if that's what you're getting out of what I said I question your reading or comprehension skills.
As for what poverty means to each individual is about as subjective as it gets. I don't disagree that Americans would do well to tone it down a bit on our lifestyles, but convincing the average American that they don't need two cars or 5 bedrooms can be a frustrating task as most feel they've earned. And who's to tell them they're wrong?
It's not about, "Americans first." It's people first. Unfortunately, the state of our Union is such that we can't afford to help out family members, let alone people from all over the world.
I would never take food out of a child's mouth but the logical part of me thinks that we could better help those abroad if we could effectively help ourselves. Which we've proven we can't.
I've been to 6 different countries on 3 continents. I've seen poverty. Should I be living in a shack before I start to get worried about my country?
Posted by MichaelH on October 13, 2008 at 4:46 p.m. (Suggest removal)Once again, Williams was NOT an orphan.
Posted by ninja_man on October 14, 2008 at 9:30 a.m. (Suggest removal)MichaelH - i never said that my comment was directed towards you.. i'm sorry if you assumed it was. i was simply making a statement to whoever feels that it's wrong to adopt foreign children when we have children here who are needy... and if that's you, then so be it... i think all children need to be helped, in every country. do i have a right to voice my opinion on this subject? why yes, as a matter of fact i do. while i have not had the opportunity to adopt a foreign child, i have volunteered at orphanages and in communities all across south america.. i have seen first hand how much some of these children suffer. their living conditions are horrible compared to ours here in the united states. these children are innocent and deserve a fair shake in life... and if their parents aren't able to do that, why not help?
Posted by 4wildones on October 14, 2008 at 2:38 p.m. (Suggest removal)MichaelH How is he not an orphan? The article says that he was living in an orphanage because his mother could not care for him. An orphan does not have to be a child whose parents are dead, just one who is deprived of parental care as is the case. So, do you suggest that he should not be adopted, that he not deserve to have the life that the Johnson's can give him? At least his mother attempted to get better for him when she realized she couldn't do it.
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